i care for everyone but nobody cares for me


Care for them in little ways, even with a smile and brief conversation. I look for an escape but none take the pain away. I read the Bible and other things. Theodore Roosevelt. Why can’t I be happy for a day where the sun shines and somehow food landed on my table, despite being called a white supremacist? However, my friends are only semi-close. He did not get me anything. I also can’t keep waiting for my family to care. Everytime i have to suffer this pain. It’s gotten to a point I actually tell people in real life I have a Dutch boyfriend as in my unreal life just not to seem like such a loser especially among peers. What to Remember When You Feel Like No One Cares, 5 Ways to Handle a Toxic Work Environment, Thoughtful Gifts for a New Mom After a Cesarean Section. They began coming into my life in 2006; I’ve done a blog post all about it. There are other people who will go back-and-forth with me for a few minutes, saying generic things like I’ve been so busy lately and we should catch up soon. It’s more important than ever to be gentle and kind with yourself. One day you will be old enough to move out and move on if you have to. My New Year’s Eve plans got canceled last night, too. Do not loose faith, sooner or later everything ALWAYS turns out the way that is best for us. It must be so hard for you, to feel alone in this world. I have not other family….but Him. Do things you like. … When you say Goldens and Dolphins are always smiling … It is true. What makes you feel better? Having to deal with unfair conditions, for sure anger settles. I have never met anyone else. I want nothing more than to die – because I know that ‘to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.’ I’m lost, alone, my resources are gone, my ability to help anyone including myself is gone, my compassion is nearly spent, and I have nothing left for this life. And he started behaving like he was something very admirable about me. I am better now and can work, but not making enough to live on my own. My heart goes out to you. I wish I could say this to my family but they don’t care because they only use me for my money since I’m the only with a stable job . My heart goes out to you. I grew up in Arizona and mother moved brother and me to Michigan after high school. I have no one that I genuinely connect with and I try to connect with God but I feel like I can’t bc of my past and like I’m filthy and unworthy and I know that I am worthy and loved but I’m afraid of being reject by God so I reject myself. I spend most of my time alone except when I’m at work (a job where I still help people all day long). Laurie, thank you for your support and kind words. And all in all, everybody, Ordinary people chatting to ordinary people about how they are feeling. Her dad walked out 12 years ago with no warning . I am just barely existing! I am all alone. I truly hope and pray you are able to find healing too. I’m not struggling with feeling unwanted today, but I’ve been there. What do you think of reaching out to others who also feel lost, lonely, and alone? I have never drank or taken drugs . The animals I always say can teach humans. The enemy would have us feel and think otherwise. My five siblings and I aren’t nearly as close as we used to be, I have no children, no marriage to speak of and no FWB. I know this is not a big problem, there are people who are facing much more bigger problems than this but this is making me sad. The only person I thought accepted me , was actually rejecting me the entire time, never wanted me. If you can find a support group, write, read, sing, we are never really alone , just look for others like yourself as believe me you will be surprised. But this is who you have in your life. He and I got to know each other very well. My parents got divorced when i was 6. And nobody cares. If the way you’ve been feeling is how you feel around your family members, and they distance themselves instead of be there for you, then I’d recommend not focusing on them so much. Yet, I do have gifts. Your mom loves you so much, and you love her too. Leave this stuff out of the internet if you really want to help people . I won’t give up hope. I googled “nobody cares” because I have felt that way a lot lately and said it…and I wondered if other people struggle with it too. Find. What do you think? But reaching out to a healthy support system is possible. I’m so sick and tired of it. Is there any way you can reach out to them today? I have been invited over on occasion. So , let's assume the situation that friends don't talk to you anymore . Trust God, that this is a season in your grandson’s life. Its beautiful just to breathe and walk and be here! You must raise the energy to talk to someone. thank God it didn’t happen, one of us would be alive today the other would not) – none of which helped and all turned their backs on us. I don’t know what your situation is, but what has helped me personally is counseling, writing in a journal (very helpful), praying (talking to God helps me a lot), watching or reading uplifting or inspirational things, laughing at funny stuff (Pinterest memes), and lately I have really been interested in Mindfulness. I’m just looking for work here, to support our finances, all the while feeling like separating, getting on an airplane and escaping to a retreat for a month or two, and finding a job back where I started. If everyone cared and nobody cried. But I have changed my dates now. I hear squat! Anyone who is deceptive is kicked out. We have to learn to not worry so much about others and start valuing ourselves. I feel the same sometimes. Accept your wife s behaving badly for whatever reason but stay calm. If you often feel … It’s not malicious. While we live on thjs earth, we will go through many things but God promises a new home where we will never ever shed a tear. I don’t see a lot of people on here talking about antidepressants but when you’ve been through so much it’s normal to be depressed. However as I’ve gotten older I’m finding myself feeling worried and stressed most days!! Have you heard of mirror work? I have a really nice family and good friends (never had a girlfriend – I’m always shy or awkward when talking to them). I have gone through this all. If we gave up we would have never learned to walk, ride a bike or even speak! I'm going to let you know a secret. It wasn’t enough. I’m a sexual assault survivor and it took me 20 plus years to forgive myself let alone forgive the assaulter. You don’t have to live with the pain of feeling like no one cares about you for as long as I did. Needless to say, it did exacerbate feelings of wondering why I or we are actually here and the desire to die young. I’m glad you’re here, and that you shared your feelings with me. This sounds obvious, but just as everyone has different wants and needs, everyone’s definition of care will differ. None of us are alone so when you feel alone think of me and all the others and when I feel alone I’ll think of you. I send a cyber hug to you. Whatever you look like, you are beautiful and handsome in the only way that truly matters. You don’t have to let them determine your value or your worthiness. It took notifying the police to get them back. Try to find a support group or someone you can talk to, even if it’s a stranger. I have nothing to offer. My Fear: Oh boy, someone new to manipulate into needing me and loving me. I have a very small circle of friends that I associate with, because I just have a very tough time warming up to people. I have very little savings, very little work history. Thank you. You deserve more, and better! I never dreamed that you'd be mine. The sooner you accept that your life will always bring sadness, loss and pain, the happier you’ll be! It was the driving force behind my Quest to find God-Love manifested in the physical realm He created, beyond just human goodness, kindness of strangers and social or family interactions or even romantic ones. I don’t want to die in my own or without really living my life to the fullest first. Every human being, no matter how loved or happy they seem to be on the outside, at some point feels like nobody cares. I feel the same way to u have no friends by best friend tied my don does not bother with me my mother only complains about her stuff my sister only complains about her stuff my echusbad has new girlfriend u am I’ll and can not do alot and no one ever asks me how I am do ing they just want me to do things for them I wish I would just no wake up all the people that cared about me are gone. I’m also sad because my daughter who lives in a state many miles away is home for the holidays but has spoken to me only 10 times. there is light at the end of the tunnel I just know it. I get on dating apps only to find every woman I message isn’t the slightest bit interested. This article was helpful. Luckily the headmaster of her school told them she was a very clever happy girl etc . Turning around your thoughts give you the chance to test them. Forget Her is the new must-read sci-fi thriller by novelist Holly Riordan that will keep you on the edge of your seat! People shouldn’t have to beg for love from people who should be gladly giving it to them anyway. I feel very lonely deep inside even surrounded with so called “people”. I use the treadmill and walk or run a mile. I am young, too. Hope you understand. I know that this will please me immensely and I think I will then feel less lonely, Growing up my childhood was a bit shaky!! I met my “now” husband the first week. I have a family but I feel like I don’t belong here. So I had to plead guilty to felony assult wjich destroyed my career as a behavioral psycholgist working with troubled kids. I’ve gone through hell these past few years. That would take serious vulnerability. We've put together a personality test for you today that will measure many different aspects of your being and help to isolate exactly why it is that nobody likes you. Smile. I’m not okay does not seem powerful enough. My spare time was spent cuddling with them, just being with them and the love we had. Maybe it’s going to a different church, or joining a walking club on MeetUp or through the local community center. The main thing is this the persons who were bad with us are happy ,god didn’t give any punishment to them, they are happy. I have 7 friends we’re close and lately i feel unwanted . I don’t have the energy to search for a better phrase, to find some magical way to make others understand. In the end you can make a difference to someone else. It was ridiculous. Had we met anywhere else we never would have spoken to each other. It is VITAL that you are straight up about yourself and how you see your life, rather than trying to accommodate the others’ ways. My problems is i hate and resent everyone. please never give up. I am a mom of five ages 23-12 and have given my life to them. It makes me feel that I have no one around me. I once met a woman who was single at 55, never married, very educated. The Dream from today: It happened to me. Am just going to be 19 next week and I really feel like committing suicide but the only thing stopping me is my mom,I don’t want to get hurt her as a result of my decision. Do some mirror work each day, looking at yourself and saying good things like “I love you” and “you look O.K. Get out of your head and get into your individual ability to help our world! So relieved to know that I’m not alone. I don’t fit in, I don’t understand people, we’re spending just as much money. I am here for the same reason as everyone else, which makes me feel better. People can be self-absorbed sometimes, but I think mainly they just don’t stop and think about how much their time is valued by others, like how you value your family and friends’ time. That it is not just a Destination. Also a court will usually give you visiting rights to your son. You are taking care of this presious baby you hold. I tried to reach out to a family member today but they were having a good day and I didn’t want to ruin it, so I said that everything is fine, I just wanted to tell them that I love them. Hi Everyone…. Nobody cares anymore? I just stand there trying not to be annoying saying only a few words cause every time i’m trying so talk and tell them something about me someone interrupts me and .. i. imagine you can understand the rest of it . Made me think even more. I also joined the YMCA. No one seems to care at all because what I am absolutely certain from what the women told me during the last three years. In reality, they probably don’t even realize how you’ve been feeling unless you’ve told them directly. Just notice how powerful your thoughts and beliefs are. And now I still suffer. It was my tipping point, the moment I had been building my body and strength for. I don’t know what country you are in but there will be something similar. Well, he did. Got to get out like a tourist. Lately I have realized that while I thought how I was raised was normal, while in reality my family both emotionally and physically “punished” and abused me. 40 hours of a hard-working job wears me out and I just go home and recoup with my animals; they’re very good friends and they need us. It was a devastating blow. I’m in a relationship that I want to let go because of our issues. I always feel like an outcast. None of my “friends” from back home ever reach out to see how I’m doing. Try to do one thing every day that makes you happy and focus on that. Have my work items and gym items ready. she always picks up my flaws and holds it against me, at least that’s what I feel. Two days after she told me she wanted a divorce, she made a false allegations to the Police. But i have a choice if i want to go in sorrow over them. Two of the days were in a Communicators’ workshop, but the other 4 days were just me, myself and I wandering around the city. I still have nightmares of him, and/or reliving events through those dreams; although not as often. No one wants to talk to me. I got hooked and could stop. I need to take care of my baby. I am divorced. I get along in the world great, however, when I am put under enormous stress, the PTSD comes out. What it means is that there is something wrong with THEM. But I’m finding gifts in my situation…. I am here at this site. I have no friends. I was sick for nearly a decade. I come from a long line of co-dependent, passive-aggressive stuffers, so there is truly no one in my family that I can talk to. He also has his skeletons from the past and is depressed. There is no “care” there. I may join a swim class at the Y. I am also giving thought to getting a pet to spend time with…. Two adult children and I understand how you feel. My ENTIRE LIFE has gone beyond devastated! We will not be victims anymore!!!!!!! We sold our home, & have approximately $90,000 in equity. Sorry to burst your bubble. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases. Please stop thinking about taking your own life. I’d be safe and happy with my friends and family.”. How do you react when you believe the thought that no one cares about you. I have reached the point of hating life before, but I always held on to the hope that things will improve. My dad remarried and is attending to his new life. Ask for wisdom, guidance, and healing. Some people must go through the life lesson of being treated badly themselves before they realize how badly they’ve treated others. I am 49 y.o., I have 2 speeding tickets in my life. I always think of that and did a blog about it too, I can relate there. Mum’s are still people, can you find a class or group in the new year to join? Byron Katie is an author and teacher who created The Work – which is free on her website. I just quit Flickr because someone wouldn’t stop taking pictures of the exact same things I already took a picture of. Love yourself. how his heart grows gay I also wanted to add that I completely get what you said about there being times we feel unwanted or alone. Regarding your kid, Kshill Gilbran says our children are not our own. I spend all my time alone, and I’m dying inside. I am a believer in Jesus Christ, Our Savior, so I know I need to pray about this with the Lord. wow, it seems we are all so lonely and disconnected from each other! Read How to Cope With Abuse When You Can’t Leave Home. I’m tired of being the one that gives and I don’t even have the energy and motivation to give to people. Your encouraging words are honest and will be helpful for anyone who wants to follow the truth. I kept giving her chances and being patient. December I will be 48. Just be a bit assertive for one thing without being rude. I have tried so many times to be a part of this but it seems like i will never be accepted , i will never be loved and no one will ever care about me , no one cares i’m dead or alive ,if i’m really okay ,if i have a problem or something . Try not to be aggressive or make it sound critical. Believe me, I was ready to cash it all in. It’s really hard. It’s truly humbling to be authentic and real, and I admire your ability to show your true self. I am in the same lonely situation. I am losing hope. Nobody cared about me. Sometimes we must remove them from our life. What made it worse was my fear and insecurity. I know what it’s like to be unwanted, discarded, and neglected. How far are you from these other people? That’s how I deal with it. The problem is that my husband lost his job and my salary wasn’t enough. Seasons show us that life is constantly in cycles of transition and renewal or growth. 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